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Sex Therapist Report: Everything You Need To Know About Toys In The Bedroom
(from a professional sex coach and mum)
Hey there! Thank you for downloading and reading this report on using sex toys in the bedroom.
I really hope you enjoy it and find it useful; especially if you're new to the world of sex toys!
"There is still taboo around using sex toys - especially as women." So I hope that we can help eradicate that taboo and stigma by sharing empowering and sex positive content that will help you discover new sensations and pleasures!
Here you'll find some basic tips for getting started with your next toy.
Remember that our relationship with sex and sex toys is unique to us and that's what makes it so exciting and powerful!
xo, the VIVA Team
Going Solo: How To Make the Most of Your Masturbation Time
The majority of us do it, yet it’s still a hugely taboo topic that we don’t tend to talk about openly and freely.
Having sex with others is cool but the concept of spending time making ourselves feel good? Heck no!
Masturbation is a normal and healthy part of life.
Masturbation has a ton of benefits too, including stress relief, helping you sleep, relieving menstrual cramps as well as helping you connect with your body and allowing you to figure out what you like and don’t like when it comes to sexual pleasure.
So with all of this in mind, why aren’t we prioritising our masturbation time more? Let’s look at a few ways in which we can truly enhance our time masturbating!
"Consider it an act of self-love" say's Brooke
Because it is! Although we might be doing it to relieve a headache or to help us get to sleep quicker, it is an act of self-care because you’re taking that time to tend to yourself and what you need.
And if you’re masturbating because you’re horny and can’t see your partner for another week, then damn right it’s an act of self-love as well.
You’re taking your own sexual needs into your own hands and that’s so empowering.
Shifting these mindsets around masturbation can really help you enhance it!
Take your time with it
Enhance your masturbation session by taking your time with it.
Of course this won’t be an option every single time.We’ve all got places to go and people to see.
But when it is possible, don’t rush yourself or your body.
Add extras
Add in all those things that feel good and will heighten your senses.
A scent that gets your juices flowing, music that makes your insides flutter, even massage oil or your favorite body lotion for a little self-massage before or after too.
Invest in toys and products
Introducing toys and products into the mix is a great way to enhance your masturbation experience.
Try edging
A method you can use to enhance your masturbation practice is edging.
The practice of edging means that you bring yourself to the point of orgasm but don’t allow yourself to tip over the edge.
You then doing it again – however many times you like until you are ready to release.
This practice might not be for everyone but it is another thing you can try to enhance your masturbation session!
"Masturbation is personal and it’s important to find your own routine and masturbation practices that feel good for YOU. Your body, your rules!" - Brooke Lyndsay
Things to Keep in Mind for Safe and
Enjoyable Use of Sex Toys
So you're ready to invest in your new sex toy (or perhaps you've already invested) and you're eager to start exploring. Here are some quick tips and things to remember for using your new sex toy:
Read the instructions before use
It sounds obvious but it's important. The instructions will give you a clear guide on how to charge your toy properly (if battery operated), cleaning instructions, how to store and whether it's water-proof or not.
Clean after every use
Even if you're only using it on yourself and by yourself, it's still important to clean after
every use to maintain the integrity of the toy and also wash away any bacteria that may have built up during use.
Don't submerge a battery operated toy to wash it
Cleaning can be done in the sink with your hands and some fragrant free hand soap for most toys on the market.
Don't submerge your toy in order to wash it - safety should always come first!
Store your toy correctly
Use proper storage for your toy - instead of just throwing it in your bedside table after use -to ensure it remains bacteria free.
VIVA toys come in a cloth bag, perfect for storage.
Your toy is individual to you!
And before you purchase your toy, it's important to know what sort of toy would be best suitable for you and your needs.
WHICH TOY IS RIGHT FOR YOU?
We all have different needs when it comes to sex and sex toys, so it's important to find the right sex toy for you to suit those needs.
You may wish to switch up your sex toys as your experience with them grows and try new shapes, sizes and sensations.
But for your first toy, it's beneficial to go for something more simple that's easy to use and handle and is guaranteed to make you feel amazing!
Our four toys at VIVA are all similar in design and stamped with our signature hot pink colour but can be used in different ways.
Let's take a look at all four and help you decide which one is right for you!
Sylas
FOR COUPLES
FOR COUPLES
Having been specifically designed to be used during sex with a partner, the Sylas will comfortably pulse both your clitoris and g-spot simGet ready to revolutionize your intimate moments with the Sylas - the ultimate game-changer in the world of pleasure! This little gem has been specifically designed to spice up your sex life, whether it's in the comfort of your bedroom or during a little adventurous escapade in public. The Sylas is not your ordinary sex toy; it's a powerful and versatile companion that will take your pleasure to new, mind-blowing heights. With its unique design, this toy provides simultaneous stimulation to your clitoris and G-spot, pulsing and vibrating in all the right places. With 9 different vibration sequences and 10 varying suction intensities, you'll have endless possibilities to explore and find your perfect combination. But here's the best part - the Sylas is discreet and comfortable to use with a partner, bringing you both to new levels of ecstasy. Imagine the thrill of discreetly enjoying its delightful sensations while out and about, igniting the flame of passion between you and your partner. The possibilities are endless! Now, let's talk about self-indulgence. We want you to have the most incredible experience possible, so we encourage you to add those little extras that make you feel oh-so-good. Set the mood with a tantalizing scent, create a playlist that makes your insides flutter, or treat yourself to a luxurious massage oil or body lotion for a little pre or post-play pampering. It's time to elevate your pleasure and enjoy a truly sensory experience. So, are you ready to unlock a world of empowered pleasure? Don't hesitate - upgrade your pleasure game today and let the Sylas become your new best friend. Trust us, once you try it, you'll never look back. So, go ahead, click that "add to cart" button and get ready to experience the mind-blowing, toe-curling pleasure that awaits you. Your satisfaction is our priority, and we guarantee that the Sylas will exceed your wildest expectations. Say goodbye to mediocre pleasure and hello to a life filled with electrifying bliss. Your journey to orgasmic ecstasy starts now - let the Sylas be your guide!ultaneously through 9 different vibration sequences.
The Sylas is the perfect way to spice up your sex life in the bedroom, or even get a little adventurous and discretely use in public.
Having been specifically designed to be used during sex with a partner, the Sylas will comfortably pulse both your clitoris and g-spot simGet ready to revolutionize your intimate moments with the Sylas - the ultimate game-changer in the world of pleasure! This little gem has been specifically designed to spice up your sex life, whether it's in the comfort of your bedroom or during a little adventurous escapade in public. The Sylas is not your ordinary sex toy; it's a powerful and versatile companion that will take your pleasure to new, mind-blowing heights. With its unique design, this toy provides simultaneous stimulation to your clitoris and G-spot, pulsing and vibrating in all the right places. With 9 different vibration sequences and 10 varying suction intensities, you'll have endless possibilities to explore and find your perfect combination. But here's the best part - the Sylas is discreet and comfortable to use with a partner, bringing you both to new levels of ecstasy. Imagine the thrill of discreetly enjoying its delightful sensations while out and about, igniting the flame of passion between you and your partner. The possibilities are endless! Now, let's talk about self-indulgence. We want you to have the most incredible experience possible, so we encourage you to add those little extras that make you feel oh-so-good. Set the mood with a tantalizing scent, create a playlist that makes your insides flutter, or treat yourself to a luxurious massage oil or body lotion for a little pre or post-play pampering. It's time to elevate your pleasure and enjoy a truly sensory experience. So, are you ready to unlock a world of empowered pleasure? Don't hesitate - upgrade your pleasure game today and let the Sylas become your new best friend. Trust us, once you try it, you'll never look back. So, go ahead, click that "add to cart" button and get ready to experience the mind-blowing, toe-curling pleasure that awaits you. Your satisfaction is our priority, and we guarantee that the Sylas will exceed your wildest expectations. Say goodbye to mediocre pleasure and hello to a life filled with electrifying bliss. Your journey to orgasmic ecstasy starts now - let the Sylas be your guide!ultaneously through 9 different vibration sequences.
The Sylas is the perfect way to spice up your sex life in the bedroom, or even get a little adventurous and discretely use in public.
Senna
BEST SELLER
BEST SELLER
This all-in-one sex toy utilizes sonic suction technology to send pulses through your entire clitoris rather than merely vibrating the surface.
Once, you work your way through the 10 varying suction intensities and you're craving something a little deeper, the Senna's vibrating dildo will send tingles down your spine as you find your favourite vibIntroducing the ultimate game-changer in the world of pleasure - our best-selling, life-changing toy! Designed with your satisfaction in mind, this product will take your solo play to new, mind-blowing heights. But before we dive into the details, let's talk about how you can truly elevate your experience. We're all about empowering you to embrace every sensation. So, go ahead and add those little extras that make you feel oh-so-good. Whether it's a tantalizing scent that gets your juices flowing, a playlist that makes your insides flutter, or a luxurious massage oil or body lotion for a little self-indulgence before or after - it's time to make self-pleasure a truly sensory experience. Now, let's focus on finding the perfect toy for you. We understand that everyone is unique, and so is their pleasure. That's why it's crucial to read the instructions before using your new companion. This will ensure that you make the most out of every moment, discovering sensations you never thought possible. Are you ready to unlock a world of empowered pleasure? It's time to upgrade your cart now and experience the ecstasy that awaits you. Don't wait any longer - your new best friend is just a click away. Trust us, once you try it, you'll never look back. So, what are you waiting for? Upgrade your pleasure game today!ration sequence from deep within.
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Usually $229
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This all-in-one sex toy utilizes sonic suction technology to send pulses through your entire clitoris rather than merely vibrating the surface.
Once, you work your way through the 10 varying suction intensities and you're craving something a little deeper, the Senna's vibrating dildo will send tingles down your spine as you find your favourite vibIntroducing the ultimate game-changer in the world of pleasure - our best-selling, life-changing toy! Designed with your satisfaction in mind, this product will take your solo play to new, mind-blowing heights. But before we dive into the details, let's talk about how you can truly elevate your experience. We're all about empowering you to embrace every sensation. So, go ahead and add those little extras that make you feel oh-so-good. Whether it's a tantalizing scent that gets your juices flowing, a playlist that makes your insides flutter, or a luxurious massage oil or body lotion for a little self-indulgence before or after - it's time to make self-pleasure a truly sensory experience. Now, let's focus on finding the perfect toy for you. We understand that everyone is unique, and so is their pleasure. That's why it's crucial to read the instructions before using your new companion. This will ensure that you make the most out of every moment, discovering sensations you never thought possible. Are you ready to unlock a world of empowered pleasure? It's time to upgrade your cart now and experience the ecstasy that awaits you. Don't wait any longer - your new best friend is just a click away. Trust us, once you try it, you'll never look back. So, what are you waiting for? Upgrade your pleasure game today!ration sequence from deep within.
Enjoy 40% off this (while stocks last)
Usually $229
Milana
GREAT FOR TRAVEL
GREAT FOR TRAVEL
The Milana is a clitoral stimulator that utilizes the latest sonic suction technology to stimulate your entire clitoris - from the surface all the way to the deeper regions within your vagina.
The Milana is the smallest of the toys and is perfect for travel and those on the go!Introducing the Milana, the ultimate companion for sensational pleasure! This petite and powerful clitoral stimulator is here to bring you on a journey of unimaginable bliss. With its advanced sonic suction technology, it stimulates not only the surface of your clitoris but also the deeper regions within your vagina, leaving no pleasure zone unexplored. What sets the Milana apart is its compact size, making it the perfect travel buddy and discreet partner for those on the go. Slip it into your bag or pocket, and you're ready to embark on pleasure-filled adventures wherever you are. It's time to take charge of your pleasure and let the Milana empower your satisfaction. But why stop at just using this incredible sex toy? Let's crank up the pleasure dial even more! Create a sensual atmosphere with a seductive scent that gets your juices flowing. Put on some mood-boosting music that makes your insides flutter and sets the tone for an intimate experience. And how about adding massage oil or your favorite body lotion for a little self-indulgence before or after your playtime? The Milana is not just a toy; it's a multi-sensory experience. Use it to spice up your solo sessions in the bedroom or unleash your adventurous side and discreetly enjoy its delightful sensations in public. The choice is yours - the Milana is here to empower your pleasure and transform your sex life. So, what are you waiting for? Grab the Milana, take your time, and immerse yourself in a world of deep satisfaction. Enhance your masturbation sessions by embracing all those things that feel good and heighten your senses. Let the Milana be your guide to unlock a new level of pleasure and embrace a truly empowered and life-changing experience. Invest in your pleasure journey today with the Milana - the best-selling companion that will rock your world and leave you craving for more. Get ready to take control and make every intimate moment count!
The Milana is a clitoral stimulator that utilizes the latest sonic suction technology to stimulate your entire clitoris - from the surface all the way to the deeper regions within your vagina.
The Milana is the smallest of the toys and is perfect for travel and those on the go!Introducing the Milana, the ultimate companion for sensational pleasure! This petite and powerful clitoral stimulator is here to bring you on a journey of unimaginable bliss. With its advanced sonic suction technology, it stimulates not only the surface of your clitoris but also the deeper regions within your vagina, leaving no pleasure zone unexplored. What sets the Milana apart is its compact size, making it the perfect travel buddy and discreet partner for those on the go. Slip it into your bag or pocket, and you're ready to embark on pleasure-filled adventures wherever you are. It's time to take charge of your pleasure and let the Milana empower your satisfaction. But why stop at just using this incredible sex toy? Let's crank up the pleasure dial even more! Create a sensual atmosphere with a seductive scent that gets your juices flowing. Put on some mood-boosting music that makes your insides flutter and sets the tone for an intimate experience. And how about adding massage oil or your favorite body lotion for a little self-indulgence before or after your playtime? The Milana is not just a toy; it's a multi-sensory experience. Use it to spice up your solo sessions in the bedroom or unleash your adventurous side and discreetly enjoy its delightful sensations in public. The choice is yours - the Milana is here to empower your pleasure and transform your sex life. So, what are you waiting for? Grab the Milana, take your time, and immerse yourself in a world of deep satisfaction. Enhance your masturbation sessions by embracing all those things that feel good and heighten your senses. Let the Milana be your guide to unlock a new level of pleasure and embrace a truly empowered and life-changing experience. Invest in your pleasure journey today with the Milana - the best-selling companion that will rock your world and leave you craving for more. Get ready to take control and make every intimate moment count!
Donna
LIFE CHANGING
LIFE CHANGING
With its wireless remote control, you have the power to discover a whopping 9 different sequences and intensities, each one more exhilarating than the last. Talk about a thrilling ride! But wait, there's more! As you explore the 10 varying suction intensities, you'll find yourself craving something a little deeper - that's where the Senna's vibrating dildo comes into play. With its tantalizing vibrations, it will send delicious tingles down your spine, igniting pleasure like never before. We know that pleasure is a personal journey, which is why we've created the Donna to cater to all your unique desires. From gentle caresses to intense pulsations, this toy has it all. So whether you're craving a slow and sensual experience or an electrifying sensation, the Donna is ready to deliver it all. But we don't stop there. We believe that self-pleasure should be a truly sensorial experience. That's why we encourage you to indulge in all the little extras that make your solo play even more divine. Set the mood with a seductive scent, create a playlist that gets your heart racing, or treat yourself to a luxurious massage oil or body lotion for some self-indulgence before or after. After all, pleasure should be a multi-sensory adventure! So why wait any longer? It's time to elevate your pleasure game and bring the magical Donna into your life. With just a click, you'll be transported to a world of empowered pleasure that you never knew existed. Trust us when we say, once you try it, there's no going back. So don't deny yourself any longer - upgrade your cart and let the Donna unleash a wave of pleasure like never before. Your new best friend is waiting for you. So what are you waiting for? Take the plunge and join us in the wonderful world of Donna. Your senses will thank you!
We built something specifically engineered with unimaginable pleasure in mind.
Paired with a wireless remote control, the Donna utilises the latest sonic suction technology and allows you to shift through 9-different sequences and intensities to achieve unexplainable pleasure.
With its wireless remote control, you have the power to discover a whopping 9 different sequences and intensities, each one more exhilarating than the last. Talk about a thrilling ride! But wait, there's more! As you explore the 10 varying suction intensities, you'll find yourself craving something a little deeper - that's where the Senna's vibrating dildo comes into play. With its tantalizing vibrations, it will send delicious tingles down your spine, igniting pleasure like never before. We know that pleasure is a personal journey, which is why we've created the Donna to cater to all your unique desires. From gentle caresses to intense pulsations, this toy has it all. So whether you're craving a slow and sensual experience or an electrifying sensation, the Donna is ready to deliver it all. But we don't stop there. We believe that self-pleasure should be a truly sensorial experience. That's why we encourage you to indulge in all the little extras that make your solo play even more divine. Set the mood with a seductive scent, create a playlist that gets your heart racing, or treat yourself to a luxurious massage oil or body lotion for some self-indulgence before or after. After all, pleasure should be a multi-sensory adventure! So why wait any longer? It's time to elevate your pleasure game and bring the magical Donna into your life. With just a click, you'll be transported to a world of empowered pleasure that you never knew existed. Trust us when we say, once you try it, there's no going back. So don't deny yourself any longer - upgrade your cart and let the Donna unleash a wave of pleasure like never before. Your new best friend is waiting for you. So what are you waiting for? Take the plunge and join us in the wonderful world of Donna. Your senses will thank you!
We built something specifically engineered with unimaginable pleasure in mind.
Paired with a wireless remote control, the Donna utilises the latest sonic suction technology and allows you to shift through 9-different sequences and intensities to achieve unexplainable pleasure.
MAKING THE MOST OF USING
YOUR SEX TOY
Now it's time for the fun part - using your sex toy! Whilst we're aware that everyone has vastly different needs and desires when it comes to using sex toys, we have put together a little list of things you can try if you need some ideas and inspiration.
Let's start with using your sex toy alone:
Try different positions
Experimenting with positions isn't only reserved for sex with a partner.
You might want to start in a comfortable position, whilst you get used to using the toy but once you're experienced, you can try laying in a different position, standing up or even all-fours.
Experiment with different settings
The settings are there for a reason and whilst it might be tempting to just stick to what you know and like, why not experiment with a different intensity setting and see what happens?
Try multiple settings in one session
Or you might like to try and mix'n'match the setting. You could start with a low intensity and gradually get higher or perhaps the other way around to mix things up!
Try edging
This can be done with or without a partner and it's simply the act of bringing yourself close to orgasm without actually going over the edge. It can be done as many times as you want and is a great thing to try with your new toy!
Now let's look at some suggestions of how you can use your toy with a partner:
Show your partner how you like the toy used on you
This could be an amazing build up of foreplay by starting with showing your partner how you like to use the toy on yourself. Watching someone else experience pleasure can be seriously hot!
Try edging
This can be done with or without a partner and it's simply the act of bringing yourself close to orgasm without actually going over the edge.
It can be done as many times as you want and is a great thing to try with your new toy!
Allow your partner to use the toy on you
Once they know what you like, you might want to try handing control over to them and allowing them to use the toy on you - oooh!
Experiment with using a toy during
This might come with a bit of trial and error but using a toy during sex and allow for multiple sensations. This can be particularly wonderful for those who can't orgasm through penetration alone.
Use the toy on yourself whilst pleasuring them
If you participate in oral sex then this can be a seriously sexy thing to do for both parties!
Take it public
Remote control toys can be used discreetly in public and you can hand over the control to your partner and allow them to use the remote as and when they please. Imagine the sexual build up after being out for the evening!
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